My Life Purpose
My relationship with horses began long before I had words for it. Growing up on 500 acres in Aotearoa New Zealand, my family discovered me at three years old perched on the back of an untrained horse in a nearby field. Something in me already knew how to be with them. From that moment on, horses became my teachers, companions, and anchors.
At seven, I was given my first pony, Goldie — an older Palomino gelding — and with him came my first experience of deep, mutual trust. Through Pony Club, local shows, and gymkhanas, I learned not only horsemanship, but patience, responsibility, attunement, and relationship — lessons that would quietly shape my life.
My professional path first led me into creative work, studying graphic design and working in television with TV3 and TV4 in New Zealand, before moving to Vancouver, Canada in 1999. I spent many years working in broadcast television abroad while raising my neurodivergent daughter as a single parent, navigating systems that often felt demanding and ill-equipped to hold difference with care.
It was during this time that horses re-entered my life in a meaningful way. Through a year-long program with The Children’s Foundation, my daughter and I engaged in caregiving and learning alongside horses. This experience fostered empathy, confidence, and leadership — not through instruction, but through relationship. It also reawakened my knowing that horses offer something profound to human healing and growth.
I began studying natural and relational horsemanship, learning from teachers such as Jonathan Field, Chris Irwin, the Parelli family, and Warwick Schiller, and was deeply influenced by the work of Linda Kohanov, a pioneer in equine-facilitated learning. Over time, my own approach emerged — rooted in relationship, consent, and freedom — shaped further by the intuitive, liberty-based teachings of Elsa Sinclair and GaWaNi PonyBoy.
In 2016, I completed a Diploma in Life Coaching, weaving together my desire to support others with my equine work. I integrated coaching with therapeutic riding through CanTRA, movement therapy, and Pilates on horseback — informed by over 750 hours of Pilates teacher training completed in 2005. Wanting to deepen my clinical understanding, I went on to qualify as a Registered Professional Counsellor in 2022. During my internship, I volunteered as a crisis responder with Kids Help Line and provided low-cost counselling through Moving Forward Family Services in Surrey, British Columbia.
Alongside my clinical work, I spent many years immersed in equine-assisted programs in Metro Vancouver. I worked with Equine-Assisted Learning and Equine-Facilitated Wellness initiatives, spent seven years with Southlands Therapeutic Riding Society, and supported youth through The Urban Horse Project — Vancouver’s first evidence-based equine program designed to foster self-discovery, skill-building, and resilience.
In 2020, the global impact of COVID brought trauma into sharp focus and led me to Somatic Experiencing® and EQUUSOMA® (Horse–Human Trauma Recovery). These modalities profoundly shaped my work, grounding it in nervous system awareness, safety, and embodied healing. Working from a trauma-informed perspective, I prioritise trust, consent, and relationship — creating a space that is non-judgemental, attuned, and deeply respectful.
Bringing together counselling, life coaching, somatic practice, and equine-assisted work is not simply what I do — it is my life purpose.
In May 2023, after 23 years in Vancouver, I returned home to Aotearoa New Zealand with my daughter to continue this work. I now live alongside my small herd — Mātai, Skye, and her filly Aroha — my horse family and daily teachers in presence, connection, and authenticity.
Training and Accreditations
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ISSC ACC Counsellor Provider #PAS324 (Sensitive Claims); New Zealand
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NZAC Registered Counsellor #13923 (Provisional Membership); New Zealand
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Registered Professional Counsellor, Canadian Professional Counsellors Association (CPCA)
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Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (SEP) Training – 3-year training completed October 2024
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Certified Therapeutic Riding Instructor by CanTRA, Canada
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Accredited ACC Professional Life Coach (ICF)
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Board Member for Certification Board for Equine Interaction Professionals (CBEIP). The premiere independent certification for mental health professionals and educators who incorporate equine into their mental health, coaching or education practice. Based in the U.S. with Canadian, Australian and New Zealand representation.
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Certified in Equine-Assisted Learning (EAL); Cartier Farms, Canada
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EQUUSOMA® Fundamentals Training I & II – Human-Horse Trauma Recovery (Sarah Schlote, BC, Canada); Assistant in international trainings
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PRO-EFW Level 2 Foundations Training – Equine-Facilitated Wellness; Deborah Marshall, Vancouver Island, Canada
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Natural Lifemanship Institute Core Fundamentals Training – Trauma-Focused Equine-Assisted Psychotherapy & Learning; TX, USA