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Equine Assisted Counselling & Life Coaching

“Connection fuels transformation.”

Kia ora,

After living in Vancouver, Canada for 23 years, I returned home to Aotearoa New Zealand in May 2023. I now offer counselling and equine-assisted sessions in the Hawke’s Bay region. From 1 December 2024, I am an approved ACC Sensitive Claims Service Provider, offering counselling for kiritaki who have experienced sexual abuse or assault covered under the Accident Compensation Act 2001, where a mental injury has resulted.

Many people who come to see me are feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or disconnected — carrying stress, trauma, or life transitions not only in their thoughts, but in their bodies. You may be tired of pushing through, of “coping,” or of approaches that ask you to talk about your experience without helping you feel safer within it. Often there is a longing to feel more grounded, more present, and more at ease in yourself and in your relationships.

I currently welcome new clients at two locations: a quiet counselling space in Hastings township, or on a farm, approximately 25 minutes south, set within a tranquil natural environment. I also hold current clearance to work with young people aged 12–18 under the Children’s Act 2014.

My work is somatic, client-centred, and strengths-based, supporting nervous system regulation, trauma healing, and embodied self-awareness. Together, we work at a pace that feels safe and respectful, building on your existing capacities while gently expanding your window of tolerance. My approach is relational and collaborative — guided by your goals, your values, and what your body is ready for.

Nature and horses are powerful partners in this work. My equine-assisted sessions offer opportunities for felt-sense learning, grounding, and regulation through relationship rather than words alone. No horse experience is required — only a willingness to notice, to be curious, and to engage with what emerges.

Equine-assisted work is centred on relationship — with yourself and with another sentient being. It invites awareness of attunement, boundaries (both yours and the horse’s), sensory perception, and the reading of body language. Within this relational space, curiosity, courage, vulnerability, and the ability to recognise and express your needs can gently develop.

Horses are sentient beings — conscious, responsive, and capable of experiencing a wide range of emotions, including joy, fear, pain, and grief. Like humans, they require care, authentic communication, and freedom of expression. Engaging with horses through activities such as grooming, leading, or liberty work can help anchor these relational principles into lived, embodied experience. Scientific understanding continues to affirm this sentience across many non-human animals, as recognised in the Cambridge Declaration on Consciousness. The Cambridge Declaration on Consciousness.

Reaching out for support can feel vulnerable, especially if you’ve been holding a lot on your own. You don’t need to have everything figured out before you begin. I offer a warm, non-judgemental space where your experiences are welcomed, your strengths are honoured, and your process is respected.

Welcome to the world of Partnering with Horses — a relational, embodied approach to healing and growth. Here, connection is the pathway through which change unfolds, and you are supported to move toward greater calm, clarity, and resilience, in your own time and in your own way.

“The horse’s response to your body language, your energy, your mental state, your thoughts…is unbelievably far beyond your human being.”

Quote from Jonathan Field

The Wild Herd – Mātai, Aroha & Skye.

“I partner with horses because they communicate through a body–heart–mind connection—a form of communication I believe is increasingly lost in our world. As a prey species, horses must remain fully aware of their environment at all times, reading the body language and intentions of others from a distance.

Their instant, responsive feedback invites us to pause and notice how we are showing up, bringing us into a state of self-awareness and present-moment interaction. Horses simply are—fully here, fully now. When we consciously pay attention, we gain profound insight into ourselves and the people around us.

Imagine bringing this level of awareness into your everyday relationships. How much richer and more connected could your life be?”

—Penelope

The Beautiful “Skye”.
Photo Credit: Shani Hughes @ Parkhill Stables Gypsys

“For horses, emotions are not ‘good’ or ‘bad’. They recognize that emotions are information, always useful for staying safe and keeping us right with the world. Horses are uncomfortable when emotions are suppressed, ignored or masked.”

Quote from Linda Kohanov

“If we are to understand our relationship with the horse, we must first understand the relationship we have with the entire animal kingdom, The human species, directly or indirectly, affects all other species on the planet, even those species we don’t directly come in contact with. every one of our actions affects all living things, and therein lies our responsibility to the natural world. Native Americans understood this. They held at their core the belief that all species are related. They also understood that a certain level of awareness must take place before we can truly communicate with that which is all around us.”

Quote by GaWaNi Pony Boy “Horse, Follow Closely”.

“Patience, kindness, thoughtfulness, showing respect, compassion, empathy. Be authentic.”

Quote by Franklin Levinson’s “Way of the Horse”.

What I Offer

  • Equine Assisted Counselling or Life Coaching

    Equine Assisted Counselling (EAC) and Life Coaching is the experience of human–horse interaction in a natural, nature-based setting that fosters learning and self-discovery, guided by a registered professional counsellor and life coach.

    My approach is eclectic and person-centered. Sessions may draw on a combination of techniques, including:

    • Relational perspectives

    • Mindful-awareness practices

    • Animal and nature-based therapies

    • Strengths-based approaches

    • Psycho-education (when relevant)

    • Somatic Experiencing®

    The goal is to empower you to respond to life from a place of awareness, wholeness, and presence. Our senses are our first language; by engaging and strengthening them, we deepen our awareness of ourselves and the world around us. This self-awareness supports resilience, helps reawaken the senses, enables goal-setting, builds confidence, and encourages mastery over your own life.

    Equine-assisted sessions differ from traditional counselling. Horses actively participate in the experience, alongside me as your counsellor. They communicate honestly and empathetically, providing immediate feedback that enhances self-awareness and personal insight.

    Activities may include observing horses from a distance, learning about herd dynamics or equine psychology, grooming, simple leading exercises, and body and present moment awareness practices. All interactions are based on mutual consent and relationship; horses express themselves freely, and nothing is forced—only invited. No prior horse experience or riding is required. My horses are in training, and sessions do not involve riding.

    Please wear comfortable clothing and closed-toe footwear, bring carrots for the horses if you like, and bring an open heart.

    Note: EAC/EFW is a therapeutic experience and is not intended to replace or initiate professional diagnosis or treatment.

  • Youth Equine Assisted Counselling or Life Coaching

    Today’s world is full of such overwhelm and challenges for our young people.  The expectancy of academic school, disruption in the home life, and the pressure of peers can bring forth fear and high anxiety, making the world seem like a tough and scary place. A session with the horses in a supportive, non-judgmental, safe haven environment can help provide take-home tools to use in everyday situations to help our young cope. A typical session may include observing the herd, how our body language affects the horses, tuning into nature/environment, grooming, horse leading, and relational-based horsemanship skills. Great for building confidence!  My horses are not started under saddle so no riding involved.

    Equine-assisted counselling (EAC) is a bit different from equine therapy (like hippotherapy). Instead of focusing mainly on physical development through riding, EAC works together with interactions with horses and other animals, on the ground, as a therapeutic tool for emotional, behavioural, and psychological growth.

    The benefits can include:

    1. Emotional Benefits

    • Improved self-esteem: Working successfully with such a large, sensitive animal gives a sense of capability and pride.
    • Emotional regulation: Horses mirror human emotions — if a youth is anxious, the horse becomes unsettled, teaching awareness and calming strategies.
    • Safe emotional expression: Many young people find it easier to express feelings in the presence of animals than with adults alone.

    2. Social Benefits

    • Relationship skills: Building trust with a horse models how to develop trust with people.
    • Communication practice: The youth learns to use clear, consistent cues (gestures, voice, or body posture) — which can strengthen both verbal and non-verbal communication.
    • Teamwork: Sessions often involve cooperation with counsellors, peers, or family, encouraging social interaction.

    3. Behavioural Benefits

    • Responsibility and routine: Feeding, grooming, or leading a horse reinforces accountability and consistency.
    • Impulse control: Horses don’t respond well to sudden or aggressive movements, so the youth learns patience and calmness.
    • Problem-solving and resilience: If a horse doesn’t immediately follow, the youth must try new approaches without giving up.

    4. Cognitive Benefits

    • Focus and attention: Horses require presence and attentiveness, strengthening concentration.
    • Sequencing and planning: Caring for and working with a horse involves structured steps, helping with executive function.
    • Real-world learning: Abstract concepts like empathy, boundaries, or respect become concrete through horse interaction.

    5. Therapeutic Relationship

    • Non-judgmental support: Horses don’t care about developmental delays; they respond to authenticity, which helps the youth feel accepted.
    • Counsellor as guide: The therapist works together with the horse–youth interactions to explore themes like trust, confidence, relationships, or coping strategies.
    • Sense of calm and grounding: Being outdoors and with horses often reduces stress and anxiety, making therapy more accessible.

    In summary: Animal-assisted therapies can help by supporting emotional growth, social skills, self-awareness, and resilience, all within a safe, motivating, and non-judgmental environment.

  • Equine Assisted Therapy for sexual trauma

    Equine Assisted Therapy, can be a beneficial treatment for individuals who have experienced sexual trauma. The therapeutic relationship with horses, combined with the rhythmic movement of riding, can help address emotional and physical trauma, improve self-esteem, and promote a sense of empowerment. 

    How it Works:

    • Sensory Stimulation:
      The rhythmic movement of the horse’s gait mimics human walking patterns, providing sensory input that can help regulate the nervous system and improve body awareness. 
    • Emotional Regulation:
      Horses are highly attuned to human emotions and can reflect back a person’s emotional state, providing a safe space for individuals to process and express their feelings. 
    • Building Trust and Connection:
      The interaction with a horse can help individuals rebuild trust and develop a sense of connection, which can be challenging after experiencing trauma. 
    • Empowerment and Control:
      Learning to guide and control a large animal like a horse can help individuals regain a sense of agency and control over their bodies and lives. 
    • Physical Benefits:
      Riding can improve posture, balance, coordination, and muscle strength, which can be beneficial for physical recovery from trauma. 

    Specific Benefits for Sexual Trauma Survivors:

    • Addressing Trauma Symptoms:
      Equine assisted therapy can help reduce symptoms of PTSD, anxiety, and depression, which are common in individuals who have experienced sexual trauma. 
    • Rebuilding Self-Esteem and Confidence:
      The experience of success in interacting with the horse can boost self-esteem and confidence. 
    • Improving Body Awareness and Self-Compassion:
      By connecting with their bodies through movement and interaction with the horse, individuals can develop a greater sense of body awareness and self-compassion. 
    • Fostering a Sense of Safety and Security:
      The presence of the horse and the therapeutic relationship can create a safe and supportive environment for processing trauma. 
    • Developing Coping Mechanisms:
      The therapeutic process can help individuals develop healthy coping mechanisms for dealing with difficult emotions and situations. 

    In conclusion, equine assisted therapy offers a unique and potentially powerful approach to healing from sexual trauma by combining the physical and emotional benefits of movement with the therapeutic relationship with horse.

    Please note: my horses are in training at present and this service will be provided soon.

  • Equine Assisted Movement / Hippotherapy / Therapeutic Riding

    Movement therapy on horseback, also known as hippotherapy, is a type of physical, occupational, and speech therapy that uses the movement of a horse to improve physical and mental functioning. It is not the same as therapeutic horseback riding, where the focus is on learning riding skills. Instead, hippotherapy utilizes the horse’s gait and movement to provide sensory and motor input, stimulating the rider’s muscles and nervous system. This can lead to improvements in balance, coordination, strength, posture, and overall motor skills. 

    How it works:

    • Sensory and Motor Input:
      The rhythmic, three-dimensional movement of the horse mimics the natural walking motion of a human, providing a unique sensory experience for the rider. 
    • Muscle Activation:
      The rider must make constant adjustments to maintain balance and posture on the horse, which strengthens and engages various muscles, including core muscles. 
    • Neurological Stimulation:
      The movement of the horse can stimulate the nervous system, potentially improving motor control and coordination. 
    • Therapist-Guided:
      A licensed physical therapist works with the rider and horse to tailor the session to the individual’s needs and goals. 
    • Not Just Riding:
      While the rider is on horseback, the focus is on the therapeutic benefits of the horse’s movement, rather than learning specific riding techniques. 

    Who benefits?

    Hippotherapy can be beneficial for individuals with a range of conditions, including: 

    • Cerebral palsy
    • Down syndrome
    • Autism spectrum disorder
    • Developmental delays
    • Sensory processing disorders
    • Traumatic brain injuries
    • Stroke
    • Multiple sclerosis
    • Other physical and neurological conditions that affect movement and coordination

    In essence, hippotherapy is a specialized therapy that leverages the unique movement of a horse to help individuals achieve physical and cognitive improvements in a fun and engaging way. 

    Research shows that clients who participate in equine assisted therapy can experience physical, emotional and psychological rewards. The horses working walk mimics the human walk, therefore providing improvement in flexibility, balance and muscle strength and on an emotional level the relationships formed with the team (horses and volunteers) provide increased confidence, patience and self-esteem. The horse possesses motor and emotional, neuro-sensitive stimulation qualities never equaled by a machine and offers 110 multidimensional movements by impulsion every minute. No therapist, no matter how motivated or talented, can compete with this quality stimulation. The client is lead by a horse leader and does not influence the horse but rather the movement of the horse stimulates postural and muscular reactions.  A doctors or physio referral is required.

    Please note: my horses are in training at present and this service will be provided soon.

Your Counsellor / Life Coach

Your Counsellor / Life Coach, Penelope.

Please note: As of Dec 1, 2024, I am an approved ACC Sensitive Claims Service Provider.

* Verified by Psychology Today

The Handsome “Mātai”.

My Life Purpose

My relationship with horses began long before I had words for it. Growing up on 500 acres in Aotearoa New Zealand, my family discovered me at three years old perched on the back of an untrained horse in a nearby field. Something in me already knew how to be with them. From that moment on, horses became my teachers, companions, and anchors.

At seven, I was given my first pony, Goldie — an older Palomino gelding — and with him came my first experience of deep, mutual trust. Through Pony Club, local shows, and gymkhanas, I learned not only horsemanship, but patience, responsibility, attunement, and relationship — lessons that would quietly shape my life.

My professional path first led me into creative work, studying graphic design and working in television with TV3 and TV4 in New Zealand, before moving to Vancouver, Canada in 1999. I spent many years working in broadcast television abroad while raising my neurodivergent daughter as a single parent, navigating systems that often felt demanding and ill-equipped to hold difference with care.

It was during this time that horses re-entered my life in a meaningful way. Through a year-long program with The Children’s Foundation, my daughter and I engaged in caregiving and learning alongside horses. This experience fostered empathy, confidence, and leadership — not through instruction, but through relationship. It also reawakened my knowing that horses offer something profound to human healing and growth.

I began studying natural and relational horsemanship, learning from teachers such as Jonathan Field, Chris Irwin, the Parelli family, and Warwick Schiller, and was deeply influenced by the work of Linda Kohanov, a pioneer in equine-facilitated learning. Over time, my own approach emerged — rooted in relationship, consent, and freedom — shaped further by the intuitive, liberty-based teachings of Elsa Sinclair and GaWaNi PonyBoy.

In 2016, I completed a Diploma in Life Coaching, weaving together my desire to support others with my equine work. I integrated coaching with therapeutic riding through CanTRA, movement therapy, and Pilates on horseback — informed by over 750 hours of Pilates teacher training completed in 2005. Wanting to deepen my clinical understanding, I went on to qualify as a Registered Professional Counsellor in 2022. During my internship, I volunteered as a crisis responder with Kids Help Line and provided low-cost counselling through Moving Forward Family Services in Surrey, British Columbia.

Alongside my clinical work, I spent many years immersed in equine-assisted programs in Metro Vancouver. I worked with Equine-Assisted Learning and Equine-Facilitated Wellness initiatives, spent seven years with Southlands Therapeutic Riding Society, and supported youth through The Urban Horse Project — Vancouver’s first evidence-based equine program designed to foster self-discovery, skill-building, and resilience.

In 2020, the global impact of COVID brought trauma into sharp focus and led me to Somatic Experiencing® and EQUUSOMA® (Horse–Human Trauma Recovery). These modalities profoundly shaped my work, grounding it in nervous system awareness, safety, and embodied healing. Working from a trauma-informed perspective, I prioritise trust, consent, and relationship — creating a space that is non-judgemental, attuned, and deeply respectful.

Bringing together counselling, life coaching, somatic practice, and equine-assisted work is not simply what I do — it is my life purpose.

In May 2023, after 23 years in Vancouver, I returned home to Aotearoa New Zealand with my daughter to continue this work. I now live alongside my small herd — Mātai, Skye, and her filly Aroha — my horse family and daily teachers in presence, connection, and authenticity.


Training and Accreditations

  • ISSC ACC Counsellor Provider #PAS324 (Sensitive Claims); New Zealand

  • NZAC Registered Counsellor #13923 (Provisional Membership); New Zealand

  • Registered Professional Counsellor, Canadian Professional Counsellors Association (CPCA)

  • Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (SEP) Training – 3-year training completed October 2024

  • Certified Therapeutic Riding Instructor by CanTRA, Canada

  • Accredited ACC Professional Life Coach (ICF)

  • Board Member for Certification Board for Equine Interaction Professionals (CBEIP). The premiere independent certification for mental health professionals and educators who incorporate equine into their mental health, coaching or education practice. Based in the U.S. with Canadian, Australian and New Zealand representation.

  • Certified in Equine-Assisted Learning (EAL); Cartier Farms, Canada

  • EQUUSOMA® Fundamentals Training I & II – Human-Horse Trauma Recovery (Sarah Schlote, BC, Canada); Assistant in international trainings

  • PRO-EFW Level 2 Foundations Training – Equine-Facilitated Wellness; Deborah Marshall, Vancouver Island, Canada

  • Natural Lifemanship Institute Core Fundamentals Training – Trauma-Focused Equine-Assisted Psychotherapy & Learning; TX, USA

Contact

Ready to Connect?

Email me to begin – I’d be honored to walk beside you on this part of your journey.

Warmly,
Penelope

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Need help right now?

If you are in crisis, the Emergency Mental Health Services (EMHS) number in Hawkes Bay is 0800 112 334.

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The Lovely “Aroha”.
Photo Credit: Shani Hughes @ Parkhill Stables Gypsys

“You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.”

Quote from C.S. Lewis

“Individuals locked in anxiety or rage then relax into a growing sense of peace and safety.  Those stuck in depression gradually find their feelings of hopelessness and numbness transformed into empowerment, triumph, and mastery.  SE™ trauma resolution catalyzes corrective bodily experiences that contradict those of fear and helplessness.  This resets the nervous system, retorts inner balance, enhances resilience to stress, and increases people’s vitality, equanimity, and capacity to actively engage in life.”

Somatic Experiencing® International

“Penelope is a wonderful counsellor. She is incredibly perceptive and attentive with her clients – she has an amazing talent for knowing exactly how much to give and take with each person. Penelope offers a calm, engaged, and understanding atmosphere during her sessions. She is kind and caring and goes above and beyond for each person. You are a lucky person if you cross paths with Penelope! I would absolutely recommend her and her counselling services.”

Nicole Williamson, Ph.D.

“My work with Penelope in the past 2 years has been a remarkable journey of healing.  With her playful nature, and compassionate guidance, I eased myself out of self-doubt, anxiety, and painful trauma symptoms stuck in my body and mind.  Sessions with Penelope are full of brave exploration, reflection, and some deep, enlightening moments.  She is a gifted and intuitive healer, drawing from the best resources in the trauma healing and personal growth fields, including Gestalt and Somatic Experiencing.  Her presence, together with the horses, brings light and goodness into the world.”

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